Firstly, I’m a total sweetheart and it comes through in my play. I may be a very perverted sweetheart, and I may be a fear sadist, but what that usually looks like is a lot of cheshire smiles, joyful curiosity, and even belly laughs. Secondly, I facilitate more than just a sensory, sadomasochistic experience— erotic energy exchange is what really turns me on. I bring ritual and breathwork to our scenes to deepen connection and invite more of the otherwordliness available in deep subspace. My play is influenced by sacred sexuality, the folk magick of my ancestors, Jungian shadow work, channeling the Archetypes, nonordinary states of consciousness and the journeys of spiritual flight & healing I have witnessed through BDSM play. My Dominant style organically moves through a wide range of intensity— I have fun with domestic discipline and the lighter, more playful aspects of Kink, I flirt with the edges of darker taboo, and I am super down to get messy together exploring the Shadow parts of ourselves.

I’ve been playing privately and professionally since 2012, when I trained at The Gates in Oakland. After a four- year hiatus from the scene, I joined Cleo DuBois and Eve Minax’s SM Arts workshops and began seeing clients independently throughout the Bay Area. Today, I lead BDSM ritual sessions at my private playspace in Sacramento, at the Black Thorn playspaces in Oakland, and am available for consultation in-person and via video call. In addition to being a professional Top in traditional 1:1 play sessions, I love working with couples, co-topping with other Dominas, leading demonstrations, classes, and performances, coaching and sharing skills with other lifestyle and professional Dominants, attending play parties and supporting our local BDSM community.

Staying teachable is important to me! I continue to learn about the craft and myself through ongoing workshopping and skills-sharing.

As a Creatrix, I naturally inhabit the role of creating and holding sacred space— I invite in and hold space for healing and transformation, for expansion and release, for integration and wholeness, for making contact with the True Self, for the release of shame, tension, stuckness, old narratives and the dense energies which no longer serve us.

A modern bio-psycho-social-spiritual model’s perspective shows us that grief, trauma and shame all live in the physical body, where they can be epigenetically stored for generations. We can begin to loosen and move this psychic sludge out of the body, physically, through guided ritual. This work is always available in BDSM play, any time you’re ready to access it.

If you don’t yet know what any of this means, this is your invitation to learn more about yourself.